after James proposes to Lily
  • sirius: you know what this means right
  • remus: sirius no
  • james: sirius no
  • sirius: we get to plan
  • remus:
  • james:
  • sirius: a STAG party

Mr. Prongs on We Heart It.


Interviewer: “so where do you see yourself in five years?”
Me: “I’m shaking hands with Dumbledore I’ve won the house cup”

(via allthedrarryfeels)




……. on We Heart It.

look, I’m not one to comment on posts, normally, and I genuinely hope I don’t offend anyone… but fuck this post. I understand that calling someone who is suicidal ‘selfish’ is rude and a problem, but having someone stay in a world where they are unhappy is not fucking selfish. You wanna now why? It fades. The unhappiness goes away. All these problems fucking go away. Yes, even the depression can go away. It may seem impossible, it may seem like you will stay unhappy for the rest of your life, but it isn’t and you won’t. So ‘forcing’ someone to stay in a world where they are unhappy, not wanting a loved one to die because you love them so much, isn’t selfish. So do not give up, regardless of if you believe me or not, make a promise to yourself to live and see the happiness I’m talking about. Make sure you feel that happiness. Get the help you need. Talk to others and cherish them. Realize that the problems will fade and your happiness will get a second chance, but if you kill yourself there is no second chance for you. 

I swear to fucking god.
Look, I understand the sentiment behind this.  Really, I do.  I’ve been on the other side of it, and it’s very difficult to see that there will be light.
But do you know what this post does?
This post not only permits people who may be suicidal to stop the fight(which really is bad enough), it also discourages anyone who may want to keep their best friend or sibling or father or even themselves in this world.  You’re telling those people that what they’re doing is morally wrong, that supporting and keeping another human being alive through their darkest time is something they should be ashamed of.
Well, fuck you.  Because if it comes down to it, and someone is actively suicidal and tells someone else about it, there is some part of them that wants to stay alive, to see that light.  These people are grasping for anything, some sort of rope to cling to, and what does this post say to do?  Just look at them and hold the rope in your hand, too far for them to reach.
Congratulations, you actual fuck.
I hope you’re fucking proud of yourself.